I’m moving right along still on my weight loss journey. Last week I was definitely more hungry and had a few more treats that my “perfect” first two weeks, but still managed to lose 3 more pounds. I started a private IG account too in order to track myself. It’s fun to connect with people but I’m still being very protective of what I’m doing here, so I haven’t opened it up just yet.
I did tell one of my best friends about the medication. She’s super supportive and is even helping me tonight when we go to a wine tasting and dinner together with friends. She will be around me the most when we are at parties or out to eat, so it felt like a good idea to have an ally.
Speaking of tonight, I have a game plan: Doing a 3 small tasting & sharing with my boyfriend and giving another person my 8 tasting. I’m ordering off the low calorie menu and staying clear of the bread at the table. I’m also having iced tea with my meal vs. a glass of wine. I’m going to do a 10 minute ab series before we leave after work, as well, since I was too tired this morning to get out of bed.
My partner who I live with mentioned working out in the basement with me. I don’t know if this was to get me to stop asking him if he was going to join the gym with me (I haven’t been pestering, just mentioned it over dinner). So this morning I tried to get him up and he wouldn’t budge, so I went back to sleep too, as I didn’t sleep well and every muscle is sore on me.
That is exactly what I was worried about if we did join a gym together. His lack of motivation would drag me down. I’m going to stop asking him to join or worry about him for now. I look at this morning as a test. I need to do this on my own, for myself. I do not want to share my victories with anyone quite frankly. This is my work to do.
I’m also noticing that my energy for everything in my life is not infinite. Now that I’m spending a lot more time on me and my weight and nutrition, I don’t have the capacity to extend or compromise myself for my partner’s shortcomings. I don’t know what this will mean for us, but if I have been patient with him, he will need to be patient with me.
I’m nervous for the holidays. It’s a lot of buffets, alcohol and food presented to me that is not in my control. I have set a small goal to get to and through the 270’s by 1/1. That’s 2 weeks to lose 11 lbs. I lost 11 lbs. in 2 weeks since Dec 1, so I don’t think it’s unattainable.
I’ve already let a few family parties know I’m not drinking so no reason to stock up for me (when they asked). I’m being the designated driver for a few events at restaurants and bars. I’m making plans head of time. I’m also using the time off work to get in a ton of workouts. Last night I swam laps since I didn’t have my kid with me.
No alcohol is going well too. One of these days I literally had one sip of wine to taste a bottle before choosing it as a gift, but it still counted. My skin is definitely showing the rewards, as well as the scale. I just need to figure out what to do with myself sober.
This last Friday I went to my company’s holiday party and did indulge in 2 glasses of wine over the course of 5 hours. I was pretty much sober for the event and as everyone moved to the dance portion of the evening, I just found myself standing at the side of the dance floor bored. My date was a little drunk and having a good time, I was trying to make small talk, we danced to one song, but mostly I just wanted out of there. Afterwards we went to our local dive bar to listen to music and I had an iced tea. I lip read some movie on the NFL network about a linebacker from the Steelers career while a cover band played and tried not to fall asleep. I’m feeling super boring without booze. I don’t MISS it at all, honestly. But i don’t know who I thought I was if I’m not the life or the party girl. Something else to figure out as I go.
It’s insane to me how protective I feel about myself right now. Like I’m holding the little girl in me that is afraid of the world. This is an interesting journey for me, for sure.